What makes you special
What makes you special?
At some point of your life, you definitely came up with questions as '' What career I should choose, What kind of lifestyle do I want to have? Which path to choose? Am I pretty enough for this? Am I smart enough for this? Do I deserve such success, love , wealth, happiness?''
You find yourself struggling with these questions and many many others.
The point is no matter how hard you try to answer these questions, you will always have your doubts about the answers. This is because you ask yourself (& others) the wrong questions.
The question you really need to ask yourself when you feel lost or trying to figure out what to do is "what makes you special?"
We all have developed certain skills during our lifetime. We have talents, we have a specific way of looking at the world and a specific way to act and react. What makes you unique, this is your superpower, This is what you have to find. It doesn 't have to be an obvious talent, such as being good in maths or singing amazingly. It may be your ability to negotiate, or that you just have a good aura.
And now you are propably wonder ''Well said, but how I can find this? Who will tell me? How can I be sure about what makes me a special person?''
The answer is simpler than you think. Firstly,it comes from the outside (that's the people around you). They all have a common opinion about some amazing characteristics of yours, that define you as a person to them. Look for it. Do not hesitate to ask if necessary. Secondly, it comes from the inside. There are certain things you do that you just feel right to do them. You feel more yourself when you do these activities , when you act in a certain way. It is way easier to succeed when you act in this way, based on these characterics of your personality.
You feel it, when you fill fullfilment. You just have to give yourself time & focus to answer this question. Once you know what makes you special, success & happiness are the only option.
The point is no matter how hard you try to answer these questions, you will always have your doubts about the answers. This is because you ask yourself (& others) the wrong questions.
The question you really need to ask yourself when you feel lost or trying to figure out what to do is "what makes you special?"
We all have developed certain skills during our lifetime. We have talents, we have a specific way of looking at the world and a specific way to act and react. What makes you unique, this is your superpower, This is what you have to find. It doesn 't have to be an obvious talent, such as being good in maths or singing amazingly. It may be your ability to negotiate, or that you just have a good aura.
And now you are propably wonder ''Well said, but how I can find this? Who will tell me? How can I be sure about what makes me a special person?''
The answer is simpler than you think. Firstly,it comes from the outside (that's the people around you). They all have a common opinion about some amazing characteristics of yours, that define you as a person to them. Look for it. Do not hesitate to ask if necessary. Secondly, it comes from the inside. There are certain things you do that you just feel right to do them. You feel more yourself when you do these activities , when you act in a certain way. It is way easier to succeed when you act in this way, based on these characterics of your personality.
You feel it, when you fill fullfilment. You just have to give yourself time & focus to answer this question. Once you know what makes you special, success & happiness are the only option.
-Ellie Spyropoulou
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